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The Art of Relationship Building in SEO: Timing, Trust, and AI Tools

• Crystal Waddell • Season 5 • Episode 197

In this episode of the Simple and Smart SEO Show, Crystal Waddell and Crystal Ortiz dive deep into the psychology behind consumer decision-making and how that translates into smarter, more effective SEO strategies. 

They explore the importance of relationship-building over time, understanding customer buying cycles, and using AI as a strategic assistant, not a shortcut. 

Whether you're an e-commerce owner, SaaS marketer, or small business strategist, this episode is packed with insights on creating meaningful customer connections and leveraging AI without losing your voice.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

  • SEO is About Trust, Not Just Traffic: Success comes from building long-term relationships, not chasing instant conversions.
  • Buying Cycles Vary—Be Patient: Whether it's sunscreen or a Tesla, decision-making takes time. Good SEO supports this journey.
  • Little Details = Big Impact: Understand what truly matters to your customer (e.g. car doors opening 90°) and use that in messaging.
  • Price Isn’t Always the Problem: Barriers to purchase may be logistical or emotional, not financial.
  • AI Works Best With Clear Prompts: Use AI to assist, not replace. Be specific, and let your creativity bring it to life.

💬 Memorable Quotes:

"Lots of people give up before the rhythm starts to kick in." – Crystal Ortiz
"AI is more like an assistant than it is a creator." – Crystal Ortiz


✅ Listener Action Items:

  1. Audit Your Buying Cycle: Reflect on your own purchases and compare them to how you expect customers to behave. Are your expectations realistic?
  2. Listen for the Right Signals: Use social media and platforms like Reddit for customer voice insights

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Hey, Shopify store owners! (Especially if you're selling on Etsy, too!)

Here's a quick question: Are people actually finding your products on Google?

If SEO feels confusing, overwhelming, or like something you'll "get to later", this is for you.

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 Hey, Shopify store owners! (Especially if you're selling on Etsy, too!)

Here's a quick question: Are people actually finding your products on Google?

If SEO feels confusing, overwhelming, or like something you'll "get to later", this is for you.

I'm hosting a free, seven day Shopify SEO challenge that breaks it down into simple, doable steps.

No tech headaches, no fluff. Join us at

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